By Kevin Neild
Nearly 10 years ago, when I first started at Out Doors Inc. (ODI) and made some friends, a common comment was that there wasn’t a place for us to socialise together outside of ODI. After moving into a new place in Balwyn (an Inner East suburb), I decided to arrange get-togethers based around a BBQ. I had a reasonable space, it was close to public transport, and there was a Woolworths and numerous other stores nearby. Initially, it was just a casual idea for friends to get together, but it quickly grew into a regular event. People from all over Melbourne (Glenroy, Lilydale, and places in between) came for a meal and shared good times. It’s now created a welcoming community that’s been running for 5 to 6 years.
What Makes the BBQs Work?
The success of the BBQs has come down to a few key factors: location, consistency, and a bit of organisation. Being close to public transport and shops makes it easy to find, and it’s convenient for those who drive. The time, location, day of the week, and necessary rules are all constant, and this consistency is worth keeping in mind for anyone or group considering organising their own events.
The BBQs have helped develop a community of like-minded ODI participants, where we’ve all benefited from expanding friendships and shared experiences. From these BBQs, a walking group has developed, possibly independently, but the BBQs are still used as a place where the walkers come together, plan, and discuss their walks. The organiser and planner of the walks is currently taking some quiet time, and we’re happy to wait until he’s refreshed.
Getting Involved
If you’d like to join us, simply say “hi” and introduce yourself! I like to get to know people to ensure they’ll fit in, follow the simple rules, and are willing to help with participation and cleanup. I also ask that guests be timely so we can confirm the numbers, and some of us can then head to Woolworths to buy all the food for everyone, with individuals buying their own drinks. Alcohol is allowed but restricted to three cans or stubbies of standard strength, as some guests drive. The rules are consistent for all.
Starting Your Own BBQs
If you’re considering setting up your own BBQs, location is a big plus. We buy all the food together and everyone is expected to contribute $10 beforehand (although you can determine your own costs). During the warmer months, we need four able-bodied volunteers to help erect and take down a 3x3m gazebo. Having rules is important, and while most people are reasonable and follow them without needing enforcement, it’s still crucial to establish them from the start.
Walking Group & Other Activities
The walking group is also open to new attendees, but you do need to be on time. And remember, your activity doesn’t have to be a BBQ—think about starting another walking group, for example. We change the location of each walk, but you will need someone to organise them.
Community is a wonderful thing and creates many other opportunities for socialising and activities. Some of us get together at numerous other times, and we’d be happy for you to join us as a starting point before branching out on your own. After all, when it comes down to it, this is what ODI is all about—getting together and doing things for ourselves.
It often helps to have a reason for the activity—whether it’s a birthday, Cup Day, Christmas, Easter, or even the Grand Final. Having a reason can boost interest and participation!
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